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29 December 2013

The truth is rarely pure and never simple.
Oscar Wilde 

A truth we often forget while living life to its fullest. A part of life we never want to discuss, never want to remember that we can be separated by our dear ones by this greatest truth called death. While making this journey beautiful & fulfilling we often forget the destination.  A second big loss in a decade. Dilip Mama is no more. He was suffering from Cancer for last 2 years and on this Sunday all the efforts and prayers of my family went in vain. We lost the most lovable, understanding and simple person with high values. He lived his life in a very simple way and taught the same to his children as well. When I think of him Content is the word which comes to my mind. He was happy and content with his life but the past 2 years changed the world around him and all of us. I really fail to understand how to behave when we loss someone we love so much. Do we need to behave in a practical and a mature way believing its a part of our life cycle or do we need to wait, cry, shout and need to change the way we look at things.

I wish if he would have never suffered from this disease, I wish if this problem has not returned back and I wish lot many things that have never happened in the past. But all wishes don't come true this is the truth of life. But at this point of time i am missing my mama a lot. And i just want to say mama in which ever part of the universe you are just be the he way you were   " Happy and Content".

Love you so much and all your teaching will remain a valuable treasure for me life long.

Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them.
George Eliot 

Love you Dilip mama so much............

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  1. Preeti Lavania28 January 2014 at 06:40

    As a well spent day brings happy sleep, so life well used brings happy death. - Leonardo Davinci

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